Hi, I’m Nethra.

I coach for congruence. I help people and align their work with their values. My clients learn to write their own scripts to actualize lives that expresses who they are. I support my clients in making career transitions, building new businesses, and finding work they love. I work with entrepreneurs, engineers, startup cofounders, academics, writers, artists, and executives who want to chart their own path. I support them in deepening their self-awareness, communicating their needs and boundaries and building careers that actualize their full potential.

I provide consulting for companies and organizational trainings that support teams in transforming their communication to move from conflict to collaboration. I use a unique method that blends ethnography, design thinking, and Nonviolent Communication, a practice of empathetic listening and conflict mediation.

My Vision for Work

I work for joy. I write to reflect on the mysteries of our collective human condition that I witness as I accompany people through their lives.

I live by the water in a town called Sausalito, where the fog rolls over the bay and houseboats hug the docks like barnacles in technicolor, politely declining conformity.

I think about what it means to risk becoming ourselves. I spend my days supporting people to craft lives that express who they are. I help them build careers and relationships that are distinct, unique, and undeniably them. This involves bricolage and iteration, of building through trial and error. My own life has been a process of crafting.

My Background

I have a PhD in Anthropology from Stanford University. I have taught ethnography and listening skills at the Stanford d.School and the Department of Anthropology. My organizational tranings have supported employees in fintech companies, public libraries, non-profits, and universities to deepen their skills in listening and collaboration.

My Approach

“I’m someone who has always been interested in listening for what’s underneath the surface of things. That is the foundation of everything I’ve done so far… I really do think that when judgment is suspended and people have the space to explore and experiment, new ideas can come up when people are not triggered, when there is no punishment or harsh criticism, then our minds can go to places where they may not have gone before.…”

Interview with Varshini Balaji

Get in touch with me

If you have any questions or requests, please contact me via email or submit a question in the form.

Email: nethra@workwithnethra.com

Let’s work together to design a life that reflects who you are